For the most part, we tend to think that if we own a home, we deserve to adjust it how we like. It’s no one’s right to tell you how to design your property. Although, in practice, that’s not necessarily true. If we live in proximity to others, they may be affected by decisions wwe make. As such, it’s good conduct to discuss anything that might affect them before you do.
But neighborly discussions about home improvements can feel awkward sometimes. Nobody wants to be that person who causes tension over a fence height or a noisy renovation project, though of course, the implicit idea is that if they let you get on with it, you’ll let them get on with their own plans too.
Just keep in mind that staying quiet about your plans might lead to misunderstandings or hurt feelings later on. At worst, they can even try to block your planning permission. The truth is, many home improvements affect more than just your property. Even simple changes like adding portable fire pits, compost at the bottom of the garden, or fixing a fence might need a quick heads up.
Most neighbors actually appreciate being informed about upcoming changes, especially if you take the time to hear their thoughts too. Let’s discuss how and when that might be best to do:
Shared Boundaries
Any change near property lines deserve a friendly discussion, pure and simple. This includes obvious things like fences or hedges, but also changes that might affect their view or access to sunlight - tree removal is a big one here - while it's your tree, its shade or privacy screening might matter to them too. You might even find that neighbors are happy to find ways to split costs for improvements that benefit both properties, like replacing old fencing or fixing drainage issues that affect both gardens. Just remember to document any agreements you make in writing in case they go back on it when the bill does come.
Noise & Disruption Plans
Big renovations tend to bring noise and increased activity to your house for a time. Letting neighbors know about your timeline helps them plan around that and accept it. They might need to arrange different times for their children's naps of course, or plan their own outdoor activities around your construction schedule as well, but remaining upfront about how long you expect the work to take, and maybe even share your contractor's contact information to those you really trust. Most people are pretty understanding about temporary inconveniences if they know what to expect, and they may ask you to do the same next year.
Visual Impacts
Some improvements change how your property looks from your neighbor's perspective. New exterior lighting might shine into their windows throughout the night for example, or that beautiful new deck might overlook their previously private backyard to the point they feel a little more exposed. Of course, renovating your house could affect the overall look of the street too - but even if it’s out of sync with the other houses now, that’s your right and anyone demanding you change it is going a little overboard. Having these conversations early gives everyone a chance to voice concerns and find solutions, just stand up for your own point too. Remember, this is a conversation, you’re not asking for strict permission.
With this advice, we hope you can more easily discuss healthy renovations with your neighbors.
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