Showing posts with label fashion. Show all posts
Showing posts with label fashion. Show all posts

Currently Coveting: Black Milk Clothing

I'm crazy about these wild print leggings and one-piece body/swim suits by Black Milk Clothing. Granted I probably wouldn't wear any of them (I can't imagine they'd handle curves too well, though I may be surprised!), but I'd definitely buy the US of A bodysuit and the first Galaxy leggings!. Schhhwinngg! I love them so much. They've definitely got a price tag with them though! They look to be of rad quality, however, but one would only know if they snagged a pair. Check out their shop and blog!













(Sorry that first picture of the leggings is so pixelated! I LOVE those tights and I just hadddd to include them but I couldn't find a larger picture!)

Love them? Hate them? Which one is your favorite? And what would you wear them with?

Fashion Blogs vs. Fatshion Blogs: The Line

While yesterday's little paragraph is still fresh on my mind thanks to some truly wonderful comments I received, I wanted to touch base on a few things and really get my opinion out there about something. What is with society's obsession with other people's weight?! It's one thing to self-obsess and worry about every calorie you consume, but to go do that about a total stranger is another entirely.

I marked the comment I received from "Anonymous" as spam because that's exactly what I saw it as. Spam. Spam from today's obsessive society trying to brainwash us all into thinking we're not good enough or that we need to be better, thinner, tanner, blonder. It's just not right. The real kicker to the anonymous comment was how it was worded. Anon wanted to seem like a concerned friend. For the sake of the post, I figure I might as well subject you to the ignorance as well:
"do you feel like you're gaining weight? i mean, wearing tights and dresses every day can be easy because tights and dresses are loose fitting so it accommodates weight gain. but looking at your photos from when you dated adam, you've gained at least 15 pounds, you are a lot heavier. maybe you should try and wear jeans more often, or go to the gym again! it seemed motivating for you before! wearing pants that make you feel a little uncomfortable can be a good reminder to not eat so much, just a friendly tip because i see your arms getting bigger too and you wouldn't want to stretch out your sick tatts!"
Truly ballsy, aren't they? Because if someone gains weight it automatically means that they eat too much. Or if they gain 5, 10, 15 pounds their entire body will be stricken with stretch marks. Because dresses means I can eat as much as I want and never have unbutton my pants. WHAT?! What is this garbage? I LOVE that they're telling me to wear something that makes me feel uncomfortable all the time so I'm constantly reminded of how much I weigh or what I look like! I also love that they try so hard to sound so sweet and sincere, when all they're trying to do is get a rude, malicious comment out there. "You're fat!" is all they're saying. Like I said yesterday, are you aware that I do indeed own a mirror? I see my pictures. In fact, I see the ones that are far less flattering than those posted… but I still post them. Why? Because I'm okay with me. I like me. I think I'm a rather cool gal. 

Am I healthy? You betcha! Am I intelligent? You know it! Am I educated? Sure am! Am I driven? Oh yeah! Am I a good person? I'd like to think so. Who cares if I'm fat or skinny or black or white or asian? I don't… so why do you?! Why are you so wrapped up in what I do with myself? I'm merely pixels on a screen to you…

Anyway - that's not the point of this post. The point of this post is to celebrate everything we are. Whether others see it as a good or bad thing. We are who we are and it's completely irrelevant if they approve. 

I had this conversation with Mike a few weeks ago how it bothered me that a normal girl, or chubby girl, or fat girl is automatically lumped into the "FATshion" bloggers category if she posts about her outfits. I wear normal clothes. I don't shop at Torrid or Lane Bryant or any plus-size specific chains, not that there is anything wrong with that in the slightest. (I do own those Faith 21 jeans from Forever 21 though and they are brilliant for $12!) I can walk into any department store and get dressed most of the time… so why are there people pressuring me to label myself as a Fatshion blogger (when I'm not even a fashion blogger to begin with)? Why do there have to be distinct lines? Last time I checked, the average American female was a size 14… I wear a 12 (not that it matters), but I still get bullied. No, I'm not tiny. I probably never will be. I've got hips for days and I could starve myself skinny but I'd probably never be smaller than an 8 because of how my body is made. I'm okay with it. You should be, too.

Do I read some fatshion blogs? Absolutely. Do I feel inspired by the way a 200 or 250 pound gal can dress herself and still be chic and stylish? You know it. Do I simultaneously feel inspired by the 115 pound 5'7" girl rocking her clothes? Of course! We don't have to limit ourselves or our inspirations from things that are exactly like us. I'd like to think a 100 pound girl could read my blog and still be inspired. Or the 250 pound girl. Asian, white, black, Latino, etc. Why is the weight card the only one that seems to be so prominent among blogs?! 

If you want to label yourself a plus size blogger or a fatshion blogger, by all means, go for it! But don't feel like you HAVE to simply because you wear something bigger than a 10 or a 12. That's nonsense. I've met so many wonderful girls through blogging and it's been the best experience. But you occasionally have those pig-headed folk who try to waltz in and make everyone else feel bad about themselves. Why? Why do you do it, anonymous? I bet someone made you feel bad about yourself at one point in your life. I bet they pointed out your big ears, lovehandles, freckles, or crooked eye… and for that, I'm truly sorry. I'm so sorry that someone could be so mean to you. But you also have to understand that rushing back out into the world to spew off the same ignorance to other strangers won't make you feel good about yourself. Instead, you're just going to feel lonely and sad and cruel.  Why aren't we spreading more love around the blogosphere?

If you think I'm fat, that's cool. You're totally entitled to that opinion. You are not, however, entitled to spout off that load of nonsense on my blog and to my readers. They're not here to be brought down by your bigotry. 

Someone in my Formspring asked about some plus sized bloggers the other day and I have a small list of ones that I follow. I also snagged some from thefatgirlsguide.com (Don't worry, you don't have to be a fat girl to be inspired by these wonderful ladies! Their blogs are full of fashion, food (how taboo!), events, and inspiration.) If you'd like to add any to the list, please leave them in a comment below!
  • pluseyes.tumblr.com
  • therotund.tumblr.com
  • heyfatchick.tumblr.com
  • http://thefatgirlsguide.com/
  • messycarla.blogspot.com
  • definatalie.tumblr.com
  • curvesahead.tumblr.com
  • fakefuckery.tumblr.com
  • fuckyeahangryfatgrrrls.tumblr.com
  • kitchenknivesandcherrybombs.tumblr.com
  • ilovefat.tumblr.com
  • fatgirlsguide.tumblr.com
  • prettyhotandthick.tumblr.com
  • riotsnotdiets.tumblr.com
  • mohandasghandi.tumblr.com
  • weighty.tumblr.com
  • donewiththisshit.tumblr.com
  • bbwprincess.tumblr.com
  • genderbitch.tumblr.com
  • thef-word.tumblr.com
  • fiercefatties.tumblr.com

I think the important part of fashion blogging or just generally getting dressed is to be sure you're dressing for your body type. Yes, I wear dresses every single day, but that's because dresses flatter my smaller waist and my big ol' hips & booty. I don't get the same satisfaction out of high waisted skirts or shorts. While I definitely make my fashion mistakes (oh believe me, I do!), I like to think I have a general understanding of what is totally wrong for me (and thus I avoid it). You could be a size 4 and wear the wrong thing and end up looking like a size 12... just like you can be a size 16 and wear the perfect silhouette and look like a size 6. No one else knows what is on your tag! Dress in stuff that fits! Even the tiniest girls wear some of the tightest things and it just hugs them in all the wrong places! Don't be afraid to buy a size up simply because of the number on the tag! You'll end up looking 3 sizes smaller because it fits! Don't squeeze your butt into a size 11 if you need a 13! You'll look like you need a 15! 

With that being said, I want to thank all of you who were so kind and sweet in yesterday's post, but I also hope you realize that I'm not upset about the comment. I'm more upset about how blogging is turning some people into catty high schoolers and such. I don't let silly comments like that through (though I've only received 2 in the past few months, knock on wood) because I don't need an army of blog readers to defend me or tell me I'm not fat or whatever. I'm perfectly capable of letting things like that slide off of me because I know there is no merit in their words. My comment policy allows people to state their mind, but there is a line drawn when it's just meant to be malicious or hurtful toward me or anyone I feature. :) Hope I didn't talk your ears off, y'all! Bare those arms, ladies! Even if they jiggle! And always remember – You are 100% worthy of wonderful things in life and you are beautiful exactly the way you are!

Stylecrushin'

Currently loving the super layered bag-lady chic look. Maybe because the weather is getting so cold and I'v never been good at pairing shoes with coats. (Fun fact: I can wear flip flops through December...) But since I live in dresses and tights, I haven't worn flip flops in probably 6+ months. I'm not good at layering but I'm determined to get better! Here is a little style inspiration. 








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What's your favorite look for the season?

Outfit Post : Wednesday, September 15


Yesterday did not go as planned... in any sense of the word. Everything fell apart early on. I had an epic "Dude, Where's my car?" experience as I had forgotten my car in Franklin the night before. Yes, I forgot my car. How? Well Mike and I went car hunting on Monday evening and I met him in Franklin. We left my car and went to Nashville, test drove some stuff and came back. We bypassed Franklin on the way home and it didn't occur to me until yesterday morning as I was late for class and I ran out, looked around in a daze and forgot where my car was. Mike rushed me to campus, I went to my first class (after InDesign wouldn't cooperate and I couldn't churn out the PDF I needed) and then I sat around until my second class. Alex took me to my car afterwards and the day went a little more smoothly. 


Then today I woke up, rushed to Merissa's house (like 40 minutes away), hopped in her car so we could rush to Music Row to a design company tour. We were late, we couldn't find parking. Oh my. Now I'm home, on the couch, safe and sound next to a snoozing puppy trying to finish revisions on a paper that is due tomorrow and find a proper hotel for Asheville next month (provided we are able to go).

I wore a new dress today. I picked it up at Urban Outfitters the other day and it fit like a dream. Also sporting the new white cardigan I got from Target. Oh I love cardigans! I feel like I have so much to do and not nearly enough time to do it in. So many giveaways to get up and so many posts. I should do this all weeks in advance!

Here are a few photos until I have this week's Wedding Wednesday post live! (Note the greasy hair and the black roots! Oh my! That time already?!?!)



dress: cooperativ via urban outfitters. cardigan: target. flats: kmart







Monday's ModCloth Must-Haves!


Just a few things from ModCloth that I'm loving on this Monday! Seriously... do all of those dresses just not SCREAM Kaelah?! Eep! Love Love and Jitterbugs!

xoxo

Here's to Tuesday!

Yesterday was a surprisingly fun day. It included a bar uptown (but I didn't drink), a trip to the Lower East Side to check out Invisible NYC's tattoo shop (and make an appointment for a consultation with Kiku), a cute little coffee shop for coffee with soy at CAKESHOP, and a little bit of window-shopping in SoHo. The day seemed to end all too soon but I had a yummy veggie burger for dinner and then met Liz downstairs to go to the gym just after 8pm. We had a great workout. Over an hour of cardio and I was sweating through my shirt. That's what I like! The night was finished with the end of Weeds season 3 and Skype'n with Mike (and my parents made an appearance, too).

What I wore yesterday (Eerily reminiscent of Saturday's outfit, I know... but with bike shorts!)


{Outfit Details o6.16.1o}
{Dress: Forever 21 $25}
{Bicycle Shorts: H&M $6}
{Flats: KMart $13}

This morning I woke up (reluctantly) and got ready for work. My usual banana and vegan frap for breakfast, I was on the move. Today I sent more emails, made more phone calls, and got less-than-pleasing emails in return. But, I was also given the task of designing not only the 2-sided postcard for BUST's London Craftacular, but also the poster. I spent the entire day doing just that. Boy oh boy! I'm very pleased with it and once all of the logos and finishing touches are added, I'll try to post it. :)

I'm just hanging out at the apartment right now. I'm sure the gym will be in my future this evening. I had other plans as well but they will be better saved for another night.

I really wish I had a better way to post outfit photos. I'm much too shy to take them outside with the millions of people passing by. I wish I would've brought my tripod! Anywhoo, sorry again for the craptastic quality.

Today I wore:


{Outfit Details o6.16.1o}
{Dress: Charlotte Russe $25}
{Tights: Courtesy of We Love Colors}
{Flats: KMart $13}

I started seeing/feeling a difference in my body today. Finally. A dress that was a bit tight on me a week and a half ago is actually incredibly loose now. Granted all that much couldn't have happened in just 10 days but I'm happy to report that I'm feeling better than ever. It's things like this that make me want to work out twice as hard so I can see results twice as fast, but I just hope I can keep a steady momentum.

Anywhoo, I guess that's all the post for now!

xoxo

PS; I just wanted to thank ASHLEY of Under The Neon Lights and JACK of DogTagArt.com for the little fundraiser they did for Georgia. Ashley collected $56 from sales of her tags and Jack matched the earnings for a total of $112! That's so incredible! Between that and my few hundred dollar sales via my Etsy, I just subtracted the rest from my NYC-Living-Expense-Fund and if all goes as planned, Georgia will hopefully be having her eye surgery next week (or the next two weeks at the very most)! I'd rather live on a much stricter budget knowing that Baby G is going to be feeling 100% again! I know she's going to be so thrilled to have the pesky entropions fixed and not scratching at her eyes anymore. The third round of cherry eye has also gotten rather out of hand. Luckily the vet said he could operate on it at the same time. Hallelujah! I could never thank each and every one of you who helped Georgia through this enough. Honestly! I wish I could be there with her for the surgery, but I know she's in good hands with Mike and my parents.

The Past Two Days...

I feel like I should update about Thursday and Friday before they escape me.

Thursday: I woke up and went to work for the day. Upon arriving I was told by Erin that I would have the task of going around to different stores and finding the clothing that would be shot for the Fall Fashion Preview. This means locating a denim button-up shirt, an AA rosette top and a leather backpack. I went EVERYWHERE! I was sweating up a storm and running around in two pairs of tights (so hot!) AND a cardigan. I went to so many stores and had little luck (the AA top was easy, obviously). The denim shirt was a little more complicated. I finally found one on sale at H&M (I even bought one for myself) and I hoped that it would do the trick. After about 2 or 3 solid hours of running around the city (and at least 5 miles behind me), I took the items back to the office and sat down to scour the internet for a leather backpack. Why doesn't anyone have leather backpacks?! I finally found one we liked at TopShop, so I ventured down to SoHo to get it (after calling to check inventory, and being told they had several), and they didnt have it. They had never seen it. What the heck?! So I got a pleather one in the meantime and went back to work. I called TopShop's press and emailed a million people. I'm STILL patiently awaiting their replies. Sheesh! I grabbed lunch (at yummy Cafe 28!) and went at it again. It was an exhausting day. After getting home from work, I sat for about an hour and a half and then Liz and I met downstairs to go to the gym. We worked out for about and hour and we were both beat so we came home. Then I watched some TV, Skype'd with Mike, and slept. Oh boy I slept.

This was my outfit for Thursday: (Again, excuse the crappalicious iPhone-mirror-photos)


{Outift Details o6.1o.1o}
{Dress: Target (I think?) $20}
{Cardigan: Forever 21 $25}
{Brooch: From another Target dress}
{Tights: 2 pairs, Walmart $12}
{Flats: KMart $13}
{Headband: Charlotte Russe $7}


And my lunch on Wednesday from Cafe 28 (As if anyone cares to see this haha.. but it was SO GOOD!). Yummy grilled zucchini, squash and red peppers, pasta salad, asparagus and string beans.



Friday: More of the same... waking up, Skype'n with Mike, going to work with my vegan frap, and more calling and emailing publicists to send me photos and things of that nature. Then I got the fun task of making clipping paths of products for a page... I had to clip a trench coat, some shoes and a necklace... and by clip I mean trace it in Photoshop with the pen tool! Around every individual chain of that necklace! The necklace alone probably took me two hours, but I didn't mind it. I actually think things like that are fun haha Then Erin let me play around with the layout of the page and do what I wanted. I think it looks rad but then again I'm neither the Senior Designer, nor the Creative Director so we'll see! After work I came home with an itching to go the gym, but I decided instead of killing myself (I was still so sore), I'd get dressed and go down to SoHo, walk around, go in TopShop, and then back up to Union Square. I needed to go grocery shopping anyway and I still feel like I didn't get anything. I later Skype'd with Mike for a bit and watched several episodes of Weeds before passing out after 3am.

Here is my outfit and such for yesterday. I changed twice. I wore the polka-dot outfit to work and then the black outfit to SoHo.

I wish I had a better picture of this. Eep!

{Outfit Details o6.11.1o}
{Dress & Belt: H&M $35}
{Tights: 2 pairs, Walmart $12}
{Flats: KMart $13}

And my SoHo outfit (excuse the INSANELY gross hair haha) I also wore my belt both ways (Forward and backward) and I pulled my bangs up at the end of the night because they were frustrating and curling:


{Outfit Details o6.11.1o}
{Dress: Forever 21 (I think) $30}
{Tights: 2 pair, Walmart $12}
{Flats: KMart $12}
{Belt: From another dress}
{Lace Jacket: H&M $50}
{~Chanel Bag: ~Canal St haha}

At this point I wish I could justify buying another legit Chanel bag but after parting with my own, I know it's just not the right thing to do. Way too expensive and with the whole living in NYC - losing our house and all of our belongings - Georgia having double entropion eye surgery along with her third cherry eye corrective surgery AND having to find a place to live once I go back to Nashville, it's just not the right time. Sigh, one day maybe! Until then, my cheap little Canal St knockoff will do. And by "until then" I mean until it falls apart haha

I also received two pairs of tights in the mail from We Love Colors this week! I'm so very excited to be doing a review for them so be on the lookout for that! Gorgeous dark red and navy tights! I'm just loving this nautical theme!


Today: I woke up at a crazy 12 o'clock! I haven't slept that late in goodness knows when! Holy cow! It felt so good to just let myself sleep in. My body needed it. I was invited to the Brooklyn Flea Market today by the lovely Kim and Keiko Lynn. But of course here I am, still sitting in my jammies and a towel on my head. It's nearly 2pm! I need to get my butt in gear. It looks like it may rain, too. As much as it would waste my day, I'm contemplating seriously staying in my apartment all day and doing nothing. Maybe watching Weeds. I just feel like I need a break! I've been go go going the whole time I've been here. I should go to the gym, too. But of course, I'm having a Diet Coke for breakfast and I'm already getting a massive headache. Maybe I'll feel less in-a-funk if I dry my hair and get dressed. Motivation, people!

I'm going to go see where things take me. If I venture out, I'll try to snap some legit photos, because the bloggy blog has been lacking in those. The iPhone just ain't cuttin it! Until next time,

xoxo

PS; I'll leave you with this adorable photo of Mike and Baby G last night from Skype! I love talking to Georgia on Skype because she does this silly head-turn of hers and it makes me smile and breaks my heart all at the same time. I started crying last night because I feel like Georgia doesn't know that I'm coming home for her soon. I've only been gone a week and the fact I still have 7 weeks to go is awful. I miss her so much. At least Mike understands that I'm not leaving forever. I'm just afraid that Georgia doesn't. Mom has even said she's been quite lethargic and sad lately (not that that couldn't be mistaken from her typical laziness, but you get the idea haha)



Tuesday, it is!


Today I woke up and was unaware the I missed fall registration for classes, luckily my final semester at O'More has been planned out since my sophomore year so it wasn't even necessary that I show up. I was surprised to learn I only have to take 4 classes, so I was offered Advanced Print Design 3, which I went ahead and signed up for. If my classes prove to be difficult, I'll just drop it since I don't need it to graduate. I went to Portfolio class for our final meeting. Huzzah! My final portfolio is due next Thursday at 1pm. Phew! I need to churn out the good stuff!

After class I ventured to Panera for a bit to work on some stuff, but as per usual I accomplished nothing. After some yummy black bean soup, I headed home to relax in the hammock with my computer. Again, here, I accomplished little to nothing.

Mike took some outfit photos of me this morning before I had to jet off. He just got home (SunDrop in tow!) and he's making dinner. I hate that he worked all day and now he comes home to cook. I should have done it but we didn't have the stuff and I wasn't in proper attire to run to the store (I've been treating my hair all day haha). I've managed to watch 5 episodes of Felicity. So good!

Oh, speaking of seasons and tv shows... we watched the final 2 episodes of Dexter season 4 last night. I was prepared for something big... something huge... BUT I WAS NOTTTT PREPARED FOR THAT! Best season finale on any tv show I've ever seen. I cannot believe that happened. I'm going to have to find some way to procure Showtime when it returns!

Anyway, here are some photos...


{Outfit Details : 4.20.2010}
{Dress: Charlotte Russe $28}
{Ruffle Shirt: WalMart (Miley & Max) $12}
{Tights: Target $7}
{Oxford Heels: I have no clue}
{Belt: Forever 21 $8}

The dress was an exciting find at Charlotte Russe. It's a bit big because the elastic in the waist but I love the 90's vibe of the light denim and the slight white floral pattern. I had fun pairing it with this silly Miley Cyrus shirt (from WalMart! Score!)

Anywhoo, time to eat some veggies & pasta while we (read: I) watch more Felicity. Oh Ben Covington (Scott Speedman), You are dreamy!

XOXO